Presents
A Webzine Created and Edited by 
From: MariaCD
To: Melanie XX
I want to thank you again for your contribution to this world, in writing your diary and making it available to us all. I would not mind paying some fee to have it. It's not that I'm throwing away money, but I feel that it really worth it. You're a professional writer, why don't you get paid for doing it. You're looking for a publisher, but maybe you could specialize in "on-line novels"... and make some money out of it. I luv the absolute sincerity and in many occasion the profoundness of your thoughts.
MariaCD
Letter in response to a gender friend who was switching to a completely female sign-on name:
As for your request for any suggestions about using the name in regard to deception: there is nothing wrong with passing yourself off as who you feel you might be. It is a good opportunity to explore your feelings. But there are a couple of bewares! I have known of several TV/TS folk who have done just that, then met someone on-line (both male and female) and become close Email friends quite by accident. They were then faced with the decision as to whether to be honest and share their secret or continue to hold back and feel they were lying to their friend.
In the second case, no pictures could be exchanged, no phone calls could be made; if the friend came to town on business or vacation, you could not meet. Telling the friend almost always results in their feeling betrayed and "used", and in one case I know of, resulted in the crossdresser being kicked off AOL because of the emotional anguish they caused by their deception. So the warning is simply to make darned sure you allow no friendships to develop under that name, but just use it to see how others treat you in casual conversations. If you sense a friendship starting to develop, either sign off of that name for good and switch to a new one, or be honest IMMEDIATEly so no one will be hurt later. Hope this helps!
Melanie Anne
|
|
Hi, I'm Melanie Anne founder of this, the world's
first |
|
Our Most Popular Free Support Materials |
|
|
|
Our Most Popular Article! A step by step approach to developing a truly authentic female voice. Seven steps plus exercises guide you to the voice you've always wanted!. |
|
|
A 1200 page trilogy writing over a twenty year period, covering my Transition, Transformation and Transcendence from being an ordinary husband and father to a normal life as a woman in today's society. |
|
|
Informational, Instructional and entertaining videos on transgender life, transition, and living as a transgendered individual in a mono-gendered world. |
|
|
Twenty Years After Transition - an ongoing exploration of what life is like more than two decades after changing genders. |
|
|
Friends, Family, and Me. |
|
|
Everything from types and doses, to physical and emotional effects and personal descriptions of experiences. |
|
|
Sex reassignment surgery, facial feminization surgery, information, videos, photos. |
|
|
Everything you ever wanted to know about sex change, but were afraid to ask! |
|
|
Answers to popular questions about transgenderism, the transgender experience, and the transgender lifestyle. |
|
Other Popular Departments on our Web Site |
|
Copyright Melanie Anne - Founder of the Transgender Support Site
